Monday, 13 January 2014

Happened and happening

Hello assalamualaikum...

What happen now is I can't really sleep yet. So I just blog what I heard at night like this.
I lived in an apartment. So basically I can hear when neighbour fighting, baby crying etc.
Tonight, when I wanted to watch the Grammy's but my husband wants to watch Fifa's award,
so I just switched on my lappy and blog. Yup.. He even snap the tv and put it on facebook. Haha..
I dont even snap the Grammy's.

OK. So...here it is..

What happen is we heard the baby crying and the mother shouting. My hubby said he always heard that happen. Usually it happen every night. Pity baby~ And when the husband is at home, they will fighting and shouting at each other.

Let me tell u sumthing..

I am a mother. I am a wife. And I do help my hubby works and get some money for this family too..
Even if I am not working, yet still I know how the mother feels. What if the mother is a working mother? Just like me. Well, in this new era..u cant simply hired a maid and trust her 100% take care of ur family. HELL NO baby~ I prefer maid that just do my homework. Apparently I dont. I do all by myself. Oh ya..Of course my lovely hubby helps much too..

I know the pressure of being a working mother and wife.
You have to..

clean the house
wash the clothes
dry it
fold it
iron it
mop the house
wash the dishes
cook
clean the kitchen
clean the room

This is ONLY the housework... Not to mention your work in the workplace.. Have I left anything above? OH well..whatever... Oh ya.. If u have a baby..U can add on..bla bla bla... tak ke byk keja tu weh???

THE IMPORTANT STUFF U NEED TO DO HERE IS........

PLS ASK HELPS TO YOUR SPOUSE AND HELP EACH OTHER TOO!!

Sometime men dont understand if we dont SAY IT... They will say..OK she cant do everything..
She is my superwoman.. Or yeah.. I am married to a superwoman.. SIT AND DISCUSS.. If he refuse, pls ask for a MAID~~ Yeah...Thats help~ If NO too....Dont do anything in the house ~!! Hahahahahaha...

SO yeah.. Men should help your love one. Sure u love her right?

To all the women out there, if u are STRESS.. PLS DONT~!! Just TAKE A DEEP BREATH AND RELAX.. STRESS will cause a lot more worst to your life and ur family..

If u stress, u will yell and shout at the baby. If the baby cry, it will make u more stress u fool~

If ur husband is back and he saw the baby with bruises, he will slap u in the face or hit u hard. More worst he will report u to the police.

See...its all back on u now..ALL UP TO U SIS...ur choice..ur life..

what had happened, just let it happen..focus on what is happening now..fix it~ dont run from it..and most importantly DONT STRESS YOURSELF OUT~~

XOXO
goodnight~

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